WARNING: CONTAINS SWEARING and possibly mature-ish content? so, there's this guy whos a year below me in high school, and we've hung out a lot and we've "hooked up" a fair few times, and never thought anything of it. it was basically an "i like you, you like me, it feels nice, why not?" thing. and i'm not talking all the way here, folks. i'm only 17. well it "happened" again like last week. and he said how he wasn't ready for a relationship and that he liked just having me there for him and other shit... and now i see how he flirts with this sophomore and i hear of how he plans to ask her out and shit... and it just bothered me much more than it should... and i love this girl to death but i wanna kill him for making me feel like there might be something and then just throwing me aside... and it bothers me! and i want to stop feeling like that, because i don't even like him that much, but it won't go away!! like i wanna just rip into him and scream and go ballistic!! i fucking hate boys... i need advice :[ Star's life sucks.
Well, coming from a girl whose boyfriend of 2.5 years recently broke up with her because he doesn't want to be "in a relationship" right now... I say drop him. This guy quite obviously doesn't respect you. It sounds like he's just using you (and quite possibly vice versa) in order to make himself feel better. Don't let people do that to you. Relationships are two-way streets. If his interests lie elsewhere, let him do what he wants. In the meantime, think about what <i>you</i> want. Specially from a relationship. Meaningless flings are just that: meaningless.
touché with Jods. i understand the unexpected jealousy. it happens when you least expect it. i might counter it by forgetting him and hanging out with your friends. (; really, if you know he's not worth your time, then stop letting him take up your mental time. ja?
Drop him like he's hot Star ;) If it's troubling you so much right now dragging things out will only make it worse. Try and spend time away from him so you can to get him out of your head. As fun as yelling at him may seem I don't think it will help, letting him go smoothly may save a possible friendship in the future. Bury yourself in something else right now :]
thanks you guys :) i like knowing that when i can't talk to people who know the people i'm talking about, you guys are here i love youu
